- 2. He gets angry when you try to talk about it
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- 1. He won’t give you a straight answer
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It can be a means for breakthroughs and deeper understanding. He avoids conflict and he avoids talking about it.
2. He gets angry when you try to talk about it
How do you feel in this relationship? You should never have to beg and plead for a commitment.
He will do whatever it takes. When a friend of his gets engaged, he feels pity, not joy. He sees marriage as life in prison with the possibility of parole i. When a man is truly in love , he wants to show off his lady.
Why He Won’t Marry You
He is proud to be her man, he feels like the luckiest guy in the world and he wants to show off his good fortune to anyone and everyone. Why would he do something like that? Maybe he wants to be sure and thinks if he makes a big move it will get him there. But then he has to face the music. He might stall, refuse to set a wedding date, basically through roadblocks at every station making wedding planning impossible.
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For many people, myself included, marriage is not something that you can negotiate on. Even if my partner was perfect in every other way, I would not want to stay with him if he didn't want to marry me. For me, a man's decision to get engaged and walk down the aisle with me is the only way I'd ever believe him when he says he loves me. After all, talk is cheap.
1. He won’t give you a straight answer
That kind of walk, though, says more than a million stupid little love notes could. On the other hand, my friend Luna is totally different than me in this respect. Luna is as marriage-averse as they come, and would probably break it off with someone like me the moment the "M" word came up in discussion. Our other mutual friend, Dawn, couldn't really care either way. If it happens, it happens. If it didn't, she'd be equally happy. Prioritize your marriage goal. Are you an Ossiana? Are you a Dawn? Or, are you a wedding-averse Luna?
15 Guaranteed Signs He’s Never Going to Marry You
As much as it pains me to say this, no matter what you do for a man, it will never convince him to marry you. If he really doesn't want to pop the question, nothing will make him do it. So, if you are someone who really prioritizes marriage, you need to be ready to leave him.
That being said, if you're in a relationship with a guy that you care about, you need to make it clear that marriage is something you need from him in a very direct, business-like way. After all, he does need to know if he's about to be dumped over this, right? Simply sit him down, and tell him, "Look, I want to be married within a year or so. If this isn't something you're willing to provide me, I should know as soon as possible. If he tells you it won't happen, or balks and complains, don't do what I did. Don't flip out at him. Ask him why, and try to work things out.
Take all your items from his house, and tell him that you need time to think about whether or not you can continue with him. Then, consider going out with friends for the rest of the month. Give him time to "marinate" in his choices. There's a good chance he may come back with a ring and a wedding date in mind. If he doesn't contact you after that month, start seeing other people. On the other hand, if he calls you but keeps ignoring the subject of marriage, you may want to tell him that you want to open up the relationship. After all, his refusal to commit shouldn't get in the way of you getting a wedding.
What hurts is that he may end up being okay with you leaving - and that could be the end of your relationship. But if you really want to be married as badly as I do, then continuing this relationship would have just led to more wasted time and more hurt. At the end of the day, a guy who won't marry a woman who loves him is a fool.
He's losing out on a lifetime of love and happiness - and really, who doesn't want that with someone?