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I love hearing coming out stories. There is something that everyone can learn from a coming out story. The positive ones give hope. The negative ones teach the reader how to handle the situation. So when I heard that Paul Vitagliano, one of the more well known members of the LGBT community had compiled a book of short stories about coming out, I knew that I had to read it.
I learned something from every single one of the stories. Some of them made me l I love hearing coming out stories. Some of them made me laugh while others made me sad. I could definitely identify with some of the stories, especially about being bullied in high school because of your sexual orientation.
However, the stories all come with a great message. It might seem hard to deal with now, but the bullying does decrease and you will find like minded people to be around who love you for you. The book also brings up another great point. No matter what, always stay true to yourself. Otherwise you will never be happy with who you are.
Once you start to love yourself you will care less about what other people think about you. I loved this book. The only thing is that I wished it would have had more stories about lesbians bisexuals and transgenders coming out as well. I think Born This Way should be required reading for everyone. Maybe people would think twice about bullying someone because of their sexual orientation.
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I will definitely be passing the book along to one of my LGBT friends in hopes it will encourage them to be themselves. Jan 24, Sheila DeChantal rated it really liked it. Paul Vitagliano knows first hand what it is like to grow up gay. The blog exploded with responses, so much so… Paul wrote this book, Born This Way, filling it with pictures of boys and girls at young ages and their stories about when they knew and what it was like when and if they came out Paul Vitagliano knows first hand what it is like to grow up gay.
The blog exploded with responses, so much so… Paul wrote this book, Born This Way, filling it with pictures of boys and girls at young ages and their stories about when they knew and what it was like when and if they came out and told their families and friends. The short stories share what growing up was like. In some cases there was name calling and bullying which led to many of these children keeping to themselves and doing anything they could to avoid conflict.
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The book is a quick read, the stories are short and sometimes funny, and sometimes heart breaking. In many cases, by the time they told family and friends, they had known and were just waiting for them to tell them. In other more heartbreaking and thankfully rare circumstances, families turned their backs… not understanding. Yet story after story no matter what the outcome, each person said life was so much better once they said it out loud and were their true selves. This book is a short read but a powerful one. I smiled at the stories, occasionally laughed, and yes, at times my heart broke a little too.
Everyone deserves to be accepted and Paul Vitagliano has taken great steps towards doing just that. Mar 23, Sharon rated it it was amazing Shelves: Fantastic book, I just love the stories contained within, and some of the photos that accompany the stories are just fantastic as well. Most kids in the book look like every day children, and it just goes to show that they really are the same as everyone else, so why there seems to be this section of the community who seem to feel that they are not because "well, they are gay" is just beyond me.
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Some photos you look at them and they scream stereotypical gay, you have to wonder how the parents coul Fantastic book, I just love the stories contained within, and some of the photos that accompany the stories are just fantastic as well. Some photos you look at them and they scream stereotypical gay, you have to wonder how the parents could not see it. All in all, I love how each contributor is happy in their sexuality, and glad that they can live as themselves, not what society or their families feel they should be.
I loved the stories of the families who took the family members coming out in their stride, and did not make a fuss about it. My heart broke a little for the family stories where the contributor is estranged from their families because they could not or would not accept the child for what they are. This is a great book. Jan 05, Tom rated it really liked it Shelves: A short cute book about people who've grown up to be gay.
The book features a photo from the childhood of a person, some celebrities mostly just ordinary folk, and on the opposite page is a sentence, upto a few paragraphs, of reminiscing about the photo and their early lives knowing they were different at an early age.
Some had no words to describe who they were, and some still reject labeling, which is fair enough. But all people featured have accepted who they truly are, and are happy succesfu A short cute book about people who've grown up to be gay. But all people featured have accepted who they truly are, and are happy succesful adults, and this book is very affirming and encouraging for any young person who is worried there's no one like them or no one grows up happily gay.
My only critique is that I'd have like to have seen just a couple of photos from present day, would have made the book even more powerful but the, sometimes camp, pictures of kids and young adults were still great. Sep 23, Carolyn rated it it was amazing. An engaging book filled with childood photos of gay men and lesbians, accompanied with short explanations of the photos.
Generally, the respondants some well-known, some not were sharing their early awareness of being gay and the response of those around them. Spreading over 50 years , the increased level of acceptance over time can be noted, sometimes depending on the location or family's faith. For me, the major "take home message" was how absolutely CRUCIAL family support and acc An engaging book filled with childood photos of gay men and lesbians, accompanied with short explanations of the photos. As a school nurse at a continuation high school, I've seen how completely destructive rejection can be I'm going to have to go shopping Feb 21, Lynne rated it really liked it Shelves: I have a few gay friends and relatives.
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As did just about every contributor to the book, my cousin knew she was gay - or at least "different," since she was too young to know what gay meant - when she was 5. After reading this book, it breaks my heart to learn what gay kids endure, the emotional turmoil of thinking they have a "disorder" or "illness," as well as the taunting and bullying by schoolmates.
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It's hard enough to be a kid, but to be gay can add tremendous suffering and ridicule. What I I have a few gay friends and relatives. What I got from each contributor, though, is that the challenge made them stronger, that eventually coming out and being true to themselves helped them become better people. Short book, easy read. I read it in one day. Bought for my Kindle Feb 25, Debbie rated it really liked it.
What a fun little book that absolutely confirms our sexuality is not a choice but a fact from birth. I am a fan of photography and the stories told through photos. These pictures shared not only tell a thousand words, but many more. The poses, the attire, the attitudes of the toddlers clearly speaks of their future. My only disappointment in this book is the length of the narratives. They were quick reads that didn't give me more insight. Sep 04, Shauna rated it liked it. Such a cute book! I loved the photos, in fact I showed so many off to friends. I thought the stories were great, and it's just more evidence that people do not "turn" gay, they are born that way.
The only complaint I would have about this book is I wanted more! I started the Born This Way project to show young gay kids that they're not alone; many others have gone through everything they're experiencing now.
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We must share our stories and play it forward for future generations. Being gay is as normal and natural as being straight. It is not a choice or a phase, it's not something you learn, and it's certainly not something that can or should be "cured" or "fixed. When asked what he would like to see the Obama administration accomplish for the LGBT community in the next four years, he said:. I think the Obama administration is going to do something pretty huge. Kelly, age 9 Cordell, Oklahoma I was born n' raised in a small rural town in Oklahoma.
My Daddy was the high school football coach, my brother was the all-star athlete, and my uncle my Dad's older brother is Mickey Mantle of the New York Yankees. No big deal, he's just mentioned right up there with Uncle Sam , apple pie, and Jesus Christ.
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